Therapy for Anxiety in Relationships in San Diego

and across CA, NY & AZ

San Diego office location:

5252 Balboa Avenue

Suite 500

San Diego, CA 92117

Clairemont neighborhood

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Online sessions available for people in:

California

New York

Arizona

Specialties in San Diego & Across CA, NY & AZ

You might notice yourself caught in a loop of overthinking—especially when it comes to dating or being with your partner.

Maybe it looks like…

  • Struggling to actually hear what your date is saying because your brain is busy asking, “Do they like me?” or “Did I just say something weird?”

  • Feeling a wave of panic when your partner says they need some alone time—even though there’s no real sign they’re pulling away.

  • Typing out a text, deleting it, rewriting it, deleting it again… all because you haven’t heard from someone you’ve been seeing, and you’re not sure how to read the silence.

  • Downloading a dating app with high hopes—then deleting it 24 hours later because, wow, that’s a lot of small talk.

  • Rehearsing how to bring up something hurtful your partner said, then deciding not to because you just don’t have the energy for another round of “Who’s Right?”

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If any of that feels familiar, you’re not alone—and it’s exhausting trying to manage it all in your head.

Picture this: a space where you can spill what’s on your mind, be totally yourself, and feel heard—while we work together to help you feel more confident, secure, and connected in your relationships.

Read about 6 signs of relationship anxiety in the Calm app article linked here.

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Hi, I’m Ginny. I’m here to help.

Lately, anxiety’s been creeping into your relationships. Maybe you and your partner keep looping through the same Friday night fight—what starts with “You always go out without me” somehow snowballs into an argument about everything.

Or maybe you want to talk to your friends (again) about the nagging worries you have about your relationship… but you’re pretty sure they’re tired of hearing about it. Still, the need to talk it through doesn’t go away.

That’s where I come in. I help adults untangle relationship anxiety, break free from insecurity, and feel more confident—inside a space where you feel genuinely understood, supported, and a little lighter.

Ginny Gutman, a therapist for anxiety in relationships, smiles at the camera.

I’m located in San Diego and can see clients for online therapy in CA, NY & AZ.

Learn more about Ginny

When we work together, you’ll get both sides of me—the therapist with solid training in proven, evidence-based methods and the real human who shows up with genuine empathy and compassion. We’ll dig into the heart of what’s been keeping you stuck, help you understand yourself on a deeper level, and start shifting things that have felt heavy for far too long.

I want you to start feeling better quickly, so you’ll walk away from our sessions with practical tools you can actually use in everyday life. I believe you’re capable of turning those anxious thoughts and patterns into the secure, connected relationships you’ve been craving—and I’m here to help you make that happen.

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